•  You learn that in the great tapestry of life, we must embrace the knots and learn from them. It makes the silver and gold threads in our lives that much more beautiful.

•  You realize that your friends and family are your lifelines. Allow yourself to step out of the cocoon, so they can be your support system. You have a complete understanding of how important it is to be good to them while they are here to enjoy. Take advantage of every moment. If a relationship needs repair, repair it. Listen to them. Tell them you love them more than they will ever know.

•  You learn the mighty healing power of humor. Laugh long and hard and often. Allow yourself to see that in spite of your pain, life can still be amusing and entertaining. Laughter is the medicinal balm that heals a hurting heart.